Welcome to North County San Diego Polyamory, your go-to hub for ethical non-monogamy in the sunny heart of California. Founded by Xavi Benjamin, our community was born out of a simple yet profound realization: the vibrant and diverse North San Diego County deserved a dedicated space for polyamorous individuals to connect, share, and thrive.

Our Journey So Far

In December of 2021, Xavi Benjamin hosted the very first polyamorous meetup in North County San Diego. The response was astounding, and it became evident that there was a growing need for a local polyamory community.

Since that initial gathering, North County San Diego Polyamory has blossomed into a thriving community of over 300 members and counting. We’ve cultivated a safe and welcoming space where people from all walks of life can come together to explore ethical non-monogamy.

What We Offer

North County San Diego Polyamory believes in the power of connection, dialogue, and support. Here’s what you can expect when you become a part of our community:

  • Monthly Socials: Join us for engaging and enjoyable monthly social events, where you can connect with like-minded individuals in a relaxed and inclusive environment.
  • Community Discussions: Our active Facebook group and Discord server serve as platforms for thought-provoking discussions, sharing personal experiences, and seeking advice within the polyamorous lifestyle.
  • Support and Friendship: Whether you’re new to polyamory or an experienced practitioner, you’ll find a supportive network of friends who understand the unique joys and challenges of ethical non-monogamy.